I've been on vacation for 2 weeks and sadly it will be coming to an end very shortly *sniff*
The weather was extremely cooperative for a handful of days, okay for a few and rainy as hell and/or cloudy for the rest. I apparently forgot about my goal to lose weight and ate out almost every day. Seriously the 1st chance I got I was at the Pizza Hut buffet (along with a churchy choir group from the States.....like 70 of them no joke all wearing the same khaki shorts and green golf shirts) gorging myself on cheesy yumminess and bread sticks when I could find a spot in line. That group was like a never ending train, it was nearly impossible to jump in but I did oh yes I did!
I ate my beloved poutine on more than one occasion, all you can eat Japanese, all you can eat Chinese (twice), veggie burgers, fries galore....I'm getting sick just thinking about all the shit I've ingested. Oh and ice cream, don't forget about the ice cream.....Cold Stone, Marble Slab, Dairy Queen ... I'm drooling just thinking about it!
I didn't just eat I also socialized a lot, pool parties, BBQ's, fires all of which were accompanied by booze booze and more booze. Apparently I didn't get enough of this and will be heading up north this weekend for some sun and relaxation....and of course a fire, BBQ and some beer. No pool however there is a lake across the street if I feel so inclined.
Random question because I'm not sure what I should do. I was leaving a pool party and was introduced to the hosts friend on my way out. I said a quick hello, chatted for all of 5 minutes with the two of them and then left. I didn't think anything of it and then got phone call from the host (who is a great friend of mine). Apparently his friend was smitten and would like to take me for a ride on his motorcycle. I barely remember what this guy looked like but don't recall being attracted to him, he was a bit older and like I said we spoke very briefly. Should I go out with him anyway? I won't go for a ride but I would consider a drink ( I do have 4 more dates to go on for my goal list) I just don't know if I should. I'll see my friend this week and will get the scoop on his friend and of course will be honest about my 1st impression and see what he thinks. I mean he might be a great guy or he might not be. I suppose I won't know unless I actually hang out with the guy though I'm kinda meh about the whole thing.

11 comments:
It's a goal. You should go. It will at least make for good blogging material.
Have a drink with the guy. Worst case scenario, he ain't the one for you.
And if he ain't the one for you, for the love of God, have the decency to tell him you're not interested. Don't do any of this "I'll call you" and then purposely not call him, bullshit. He's a human being dammit and he deserves respect.
Go for it! My friend was approached by a nice man in a restaurant one day while she was coming out of the restroom in the midst of a horrible "break up dinner". She was not super attracted, but he was nice and made her laugh so she was like "why not?" Now they are happily married! You never know... ;)
Definitely go out with him. But if you get that gut instinct that you don't like him, yea just call it quits!
Way to go!
First, that sounds like a brutal vacation schedule and you probably need a vacacation from your vacation - not going back to work. Ha. Second, I would talk to your friend first before going for drinks & maybe get a picture from your friend. Goal list or no goal list . . .
Wiwille, It would but it would also be at the expense of a friends friend so i'm not sure I'd go there if I didn't like him.
WIGSF, I will try to be as courteous as possible if I don't dig him. What's the preference "it's not you it's me" lol.
JLee, my friend married one of the nicest guys I have ever met and same situation. She wasn't attracted to him physically but to his heart and now she is attracted to the whole package.
Rawbean, I will definitely go with my gut instinct! Sometimes it knows best!
2DP, yes a vacation from the vacation I always seem to need one of those. As for the guy i'll speak to my friend this week though i do recall him having a regular job and then a questionable one...though i couldn't tell if my friend was joking.
Apply breaks please! Now change gears.
It doesnt have to be a date. I think people make too big a deal out of meeting people of the opposite sex. Just socialize and chat in a neutral environment. I prefer a coffee shop to a bar to stay neutral. You cant judge him based on 5 minutes alone. So invite him for coffee and chat for half-hour. Dont judge him on age alone.
Take it easy Miss Ash.
Yah, why not go? You have nothing to lose!
Pizza Hut buffet... They have commercials for that bacon mac and cheese and it looks so good but so unhealthy, but I'd love to eat it!
I say go for it. Even if it turns out to just be meh, it's just a couple of hours, right? Might be the start of something cool.
Cxx
Go on the date, maybe just sleep with him once and not call back.
I put on about 10 pounds on my vacation, big portions in the states!
Yrautca, very true though I'd prefer a bar environment to coffee. Too quiet at coffee shops.
Christielli, You know i've never had their pasta ever....just the pizza and breadsticks.
Claire, I may after I speak to my friend.
BB, yikes!!! Who am I kidding you're like 10 feet tall, 10 extra pounds is nothing!
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